let's have tea in the MASTURBATORY!

Thank you for all the PMs and all the chatting and cheering me up. My grandpa passed away last week, as doctor's presumed he did not make it through the night. He was 95 and up until last week he was in fantastic mental and physical condition, he had a full and adventurous (seriously, more like, super-adventurous) life and he went peacefully. My family deals with loss through humour and distraction so even our grieving is probably the most pleasant kind there is, we've exchanged all the crazy stories about him and he will be always fondly remembered.

I am glad I made it over there cause my Mum was really struggling, not with grief, but with her siblings. It is safe to say there was a lot of the usual DRAMA starring those dicks but other than that I think we are gonna be just fine. It'll take some time but we'll get there.
I think,initially, I was more of a mess cause it's already been a rather exhausting week (as some of you know ladytiferet is moving *to that country that shall not be named* and we're both sappy and girly and piney about it) and well, it still came as a shock.

But I am happy to be back and I'd like to thank every single one of you for being so fucking amazing with distracting me, making me laugh and giving me hugs over the internet.

There's a lot of stuff to be done, since we're basically moving Nana to ours but I still hope to see wee lalazee tomorrow!

also omfffg fandom, it's as if I was away for a month.

♥